What Must a Chatan and a Kallah Learn Before Marriage?

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Getting married according to the Jewish Halachah is both exciting and intimidating! There’s a lot that needs to be studied! Fortunately, at Chessed Ve’Emet (here!) you’ll find two knowledgable teachers who will help you get through the material you need to learn and find yourself with the knowledge you need to make a start in your marriage the right way!

As a husband a wife team, Rabbi Eliyahu Shear teaches the Chatanim and Shoshanah teaches the Kallot. Both are certified teachers and are capable of sharing (and who do share) the material in a professional and caring manner.

You can of course check more information about what we cover by visiting our Chatan Lessons page as well as our Kallah Lessons page. But for this post, we are sharing a video prepared by Shoshanah to let you know just how much there is to learn and the material you’ll need to cover. Enjoy! And do be in touch! Preparing for marriage is not a once-off lesson thing. It is also not about hearing one’s teacher speak about the latest basketball game! It is concerned with the actual laws applicable to Family Purity and provides an opportunity and an opening to discuss any important matters that may be on your mind related to your future married life!

If you’ve found yourself a teacher who’ll help you master the material in just one lesson, or finds themselves more concerned with the latest football scores, or who shows more interest in the physical aspect of sexuality without giving over the important laws of Family Purity, you are on the incorrect path. You need to reconsider what exactly the laws are about and what you actually need to learn.